Tag: positive leadership
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How to Make Difficult Choices a Little Easier

I don’t know what to move forward on, we need many things and I am struggling to decide what is best. Yep, that was last week’s conversation with a director. Last week we talked about difficult conversations. This week we lean into difficult decisions, because they often go hand in hand. My first question was,…
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Why Leaders Struggle With Difficult Conversations and How to Fix It

I am really struggling with one of the managers I oversee right now. They are not getting the job done. I hear this all too often. To which I respond, “have you discussed things with them and designed a plan?” “Well, I told them they were not meeting deadlines, and it was holding the team…
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The Year I Started Over: Why Change Built My Calling

A year ago today, life changed in a big way. Change is not always easy, but sometimes it is needed. July 4, 2025, was my final night of a one-month stint living in a hotel while closing out my job duties. Oh yeah, my son was living in the hotel with me while he closed…
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Set the Standard: Stop Carrying the Team and Start Leading It

Set the Standard. Set clear expectations. Quit wondering if things are landing with your team at meetings and change the way you conduct them. Eighty two percent of leaders feel they don’t have the time to build consistency and accountability. One in three leaders feel they are the only one holding the team together. Folks,…
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It’s Happening Already: The First Signs of Summer Burnout

It’s happening already and I told you it would. Most people I’ve talked to lately are 2–4 weeks into the summer season and it’s present. They’re already feeling the beginning stages of burnout. It’s true. This is exactly why over the last 6 weeks I’ve been writing about accountability and the H3 Formula: Health, Heart,…
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Stop Surviving and Start Thriving

Leadership isn’t easy, it demands time, patience, energy, empathy, culture‑building, and the constant pressure to support others while keeping yourself together. And when your habits and systems break down, everything else follows. I know because I’ve lived it. I’ve been overwhelmed by “all the things,” and it pushed me straight into burnout. Summer is approaching…
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The Courage to Start Without All the Answers

People don’t rise to the challenge they sink to their level of training. And in leadership today, they sink even further… to their level of habits. Over the last couple of weeks, we’ve talked about overwhelm and the power of building systems that protect our teams. Systems create guardrails. They allow us to be present…
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This Week’s Play: Systems Create Freedom

The Freedom Playbook Build systems. Lead with clarity. Live with freedom. Every week, The Freedom Playbook gives leaders and aspiring leaders the tools to escape overwhelm and lead with confidence. Through simple, integrated systems and practical guidance, you’ll learn how to reduce burnout, create clarity, and build a leadership rhythm that actually supports your life…
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The Power of Harvest Seasons in Leadership and Life

I’ve spent the last few weeks at multiple conferences — speaking, listening, and learning alongside some truly incredible professionals. One theme kept surfacing in almost every session and every hallway conversation: culture and leadership. And with it came the same question repeatedly: How do you balance leadership, culture, life, and still get your work done?…
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Finding Comfort Being Uncomfortable

I learned a long time ago to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Growth demands it. New experiences demand it. And in the workplace, culture often becomes the place where that discomfort shows up first. A struggling culture feels clunky. People hesitate. They don’t take chances. They don’t feel safe enough to push forward. And when culture…
